Dating advice when to be exclusive
But if he says things like: These are all clear expressions that he’s not thinking about being in a relationship, and you should begin to make plans to cut things off (if you’re looking for something serious) before you get in any deeper.What if he says he would like to be exclusive eventually, but wants to wait for a while before deciding?Whatever happens though, know your value and don’t settle for less than your worth.If a guy isn’t willing as least consider exclusivity after a month or two of dating, it’s time to move on and find someone who will.In this case you should be understanding, but make him know that you are someone who will move on eventually and won’t settle for being in relationship limbo.
If I want to go to the supermarket and read every label on every can of soup, I can do it. I could honestly tell you what I’m doing and you have no reason to freak out.
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In a nonexclusive relationship, you always have the excuse of “Well, we are just ‘talking,’ therefore I’m playing the field for awhile.” You can wipe your hands clean of any drama and not expect to be taken to the guillotine the next morning after your date with another person.
This reminds me of Kevin Hart’s standup where he is talking about telling his wife about feeding the pigeons.