Friends with benefits after dating
It’s one of the last remaining taboo subjects, so let’s talk about it and debunk a few myths.
First of all, there is no magical cut off date when we suddenly wake up to discover that we are no longer sexual beings.
It does however, require physical attraction, and above all else, trust.
Just to be clear, I am not suggesting that women should take home a stranger for a one-night stand, because that can be very dangerous.
Yes, I understand that this isn’t what women say they typically want, but I just got out of a long, difficult relationship and I don’t want to dive right back into commitment again.
It always helps to feel supported and part of a community of like-minded people who are out there experiencing the same thing.
Love and sex do not have to exist simultaneously in the same relationship in order to be enjoyable.
I have had very satisfying physical relationships with men who were simply wonderful lovers, but nothing more.
Now, I understand that some of you might be reading this article specifically because you are sleeping with a friend and you want it to become something more.
You’ll still benefit from reading this article, but read this article as well: In our modern society, it is common for people to want to add something to their life to fill some sort of emotional void.