Guys dating advice for women
So taboo is this desire for intimacy that its possibility can terrify men; not because it's smothering, but because they realize how desperate they are for it. First, understand that your guy's hasty retreat post-sex may be because he doesn't understand how much he craves a connection with you.
Then, it's time for another kitchen table sex talk, Mintz says.
At that time, social repression begins — of words, thoughts, feelings — and the desire for human connection goes underground.
"A lot of men and women don't know this, so they wait to be [turned on] to have sex...
But you can have sex to get [turned on], rather than wait to be [turned on] to have sex." If you have a normative lack of desire and don’t know about it, Mintz says these kitchen table sex talks are especially important because they can help both of you realize what issues are really at hand without feeling attacked, hurt, or rejected.
"the dark continent," and if that's true, then male sexuality might as well be the dark planet.
Because when it comes to sex, men are far from simple.