Intj help dating

She keeps saying that I'm too hard on myself and that "it's not you, it's me" however, I can't stop reliving every single moment in those years, or tracing back my words and actions to keep finding no logical explanation. She swore to love me and promised all these things that she kept accomplishing, until now, when she's gone. This whole campaign, which I was scared of getting into, that went well for such a long time has totally failed because "I'm too cold/unresponsive" or "Trusting me is hard because I'm not that engaged when she asked for advice"TL; DR: My 4.5-year gf cheated on me and I don't know how to recover and what to do about it.

For certain reasons I haven't ever really had alcohol until recently.

Here's how: So I went to the bathroom, and oh boy, the toilet is clogged.

I told customers not to use that bathroom temporarily so I could unclog the toilet.

What each personality type looks for in a date (and what instantly turns them off) is very different.

Didn't get blackout or sick or anything which made it enjoyable. My question as you may know is what are you like when drunk? It can be when reading a book that captures my interest or when playing music.

Her mother and her sister called me about two days after the "incident" happened.

They both apologized and said that they'd do anything they could.

We talked and she told me she just stopped loving me.

She just didn't feel the same one day and that she can't stay in this relationship because of it. My life just feels like nothingness, I just can't believe to this day that the person who I loved the most (probably the only person I've ever actually loved) has disappointed me and treats me so poorly.

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