Know if your dating wrong guy
I also had to admit that I didn’t have a clue about how to find the right guy or even who the right guy was for me. And after hearing hundreds of women tell me about their own misguided marriages and close-calls with Mr. Women remain “stuck” in relationships with the wrong guy for the wrong reasons. Because if they don’t know what they want, they can’t tell the difference between Mr. But do the qualities we seek add up to the right guy — and in turn, the right relationship? You bring out the best in each other, not the worst. Connecting on an emotional and spiritual level can be just as powerful as a physical connection. You communicate with each other out of care and concern instead of judgment and criticism.
So how could I find him if I didn’t know what I wanted in the first place? I eventually figured it out and found the right guy; an old friend, who had been in my life long before my near-miss at the altar. You encourage each other to grow personally, professionally and emotionally, recognizing that change is positive and healthy. You trust each other and can count on one another to do the right thing. Playfulness adds spice, and laughter is an aphrodisiac. Think about it this way: What’s your tone of voice like when you’re critical and judgmental?
If you’re starting to date someone, certainly in thought mix of fear and excitement, faith and doubt.
Maybe you want your current boyfriend is the love of your life, but deep down you know that you are not compatible. Take this quiz and ask yourself these simple questions to tell if you are with the wrong guy or not.
There’s no jealousy or second-guessing in the relationship. It’s hard to have a harsh tone when you speak out of care and concern.
Do you have these qualities in your current relationship?
Anne Milford is the co-author of (Broadway Books, May 2010).
Milford writes and speaks extensively on the subject of dating and relationships.