Ladys dating wrong
I’m not saying a mother should put her child 2nd to any guy.
What I’m saying is when there is a committed healthy (non abusive) relationship, your mate is important too.
But Vondie Lozano, licensed marriage and family therapist, has some other not-so-obvious flags to add to the list.
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So chill out, other people have a right to their views too.
It is not about a woman putting a man before her children.
It is about putting the relationship, which hopefully will grow into a marriage before the children, or at least giving it equal status.
There is a difference between neglecting one’s children and making the primary relationship in a home between a mother and her children instead being between her and her mate.
That is why they are divorced most of the time (most divorced men sure as heck are not going to endure that situation with another man’s children). What he was referring to was when someone goes OUT OF THEIR WAY to put that phrase, ‘my kids come first’, in a profile or write it during a conversation (how does that even come up in conversation???
I carried them in my womb, and they need someone to raise them right.
Not a woman who will go “Oh honey, mommy is so sorry your sick, but I’m still going to take you to your grandmother’s because “so-and-so” will be upset with me for ‘standing him/her up’.” If you’re so arrogant as to think that you should be more important than any child, then you really have no business dating a mother.
Christan Marashio, founder of And Thats Why Youre Single.com, adds that “it's normal for people to have some trouble crafting a profile and to use self-deprecating humor to lighten the mood.
Too much humor is usually a sign that the person is insecure and uncomfortable with being vulnerable, which could lead to problems with emotional intimacy down the road.