Subconscious mind dating
She’ll instantly feel a pang of curious attraction for you if she sees this. Have women around you is the easiest way to trigger this switch. This is the practice of “Preselection” and “Leader of Men.” 2. In fact, practice smiling to at least three strangers a day.
You have value for other women, so you must have value for her. If you don’t have girls to roll with, be talking to everyone in the bar or lounge. Women see this, and they want to be where the excitement is. This is the practice of “Willingness to emote.” If you want to take this step further, learn a musical instrument.
It could be when your first child was born, when you woke up and saw a beautiful sunrise after being sick for a long time, or when you fell in love with that special someone. If you’re not in relationship, think about what you’d like if you met the ideal person.
It doesn’t matter what the memory is, but feel your heart, mind, and soul being filled with a memory of love. If you’re already in a relationship, ask for what you’d like if the two of you were absolutely in love and you felt secure, connected, appreciated, and cherished. When Carlin and I met and fell in love, we both realized that we each had made a detailed list of what we are looking for in a mate.
If you’re anything like me, I always used to think looks and being nice was what attracted women.
Because looks attract me, and who wants someone who’s mean?
Even if you’re not tall or the best looking guy or superrich or whatever, if you’ve got these 5 traits, you’ll turn her on… Okay, so after you open a set, the objective is to systematically trigger these attraction switches. At base we humans want two basic things: to survive and to replicate.
This is done through DHVs or “Demonstrations of Higher Value.” Cool. Value doesn’t refer to some esoteric, abstract thing. Men seem to be attracted to replication value, such as youth, waist-to-hip ratio, and all that. Women seem to be attracted to survival value, such as high social status, leadership, wealth of resources.
A lot of guys think it’s impossible to approach a woman with guys in the group. If they start acting like a dick, handle them with class and respect. Show her that her life would be improved if she built an alignment with you. Step Two: When your answer comes, which usually comes in the form of a feeling, listen to it. Every day spend at least an hour to make your purpose a reality. Step Three: Next time you’re in set, share your passion with everyone. Help someone with their homework, take out the trash for your mother, if you’ve got a girl in your life open the car door for her.At first, incorporate these DHV “spikes” or triggers into the stories you tell and in your behavior. This isn’t something you do in a bar just to attract women. But if you’re going to tell stories, tell them to the group, not to your target. At first, if you do say anything to her, neg her or banter with her. When you’re in comfort with her, obviously continue to incorporate these traits into your stories and behavior. One difference between the attract and comfort phase is let HER talk. Like I said at the beginning of all this, this is about becoming these traits so they naturally come across without you even having to think about it. The good news is that there are effective, new ways that can reprogram our unconscious minds to move them from injecting us with fear to bathing us in love. First, before we can reprogram the unconscious mind, we have to get clear about what our conscious mind wants and needs. Put your hand over your heart and imagine that you can breathe in love with every breath and breathe out love. Continue doing that for about 10 breaths in and out.Now, imagine a time when you felt unconditional love.