Vietnamese culture for dating
I’m not suggesting that you turn up to your date with your bank statement in hand, these things need to be handled in a subtle manner, but it does need to be done.
Once it is done, leave the subject alone and don’t repeat it.
The Vietnamese value romantic love highly, but since most people are poor, economic factors are important in the choice of partners. However, they must adhere to certain cultural expectations, especially what is considered appropriate behavior for each gender.
You’ll find that Vietnamese girls tend to be a bit slimmer, fairer skinned, and slightly taller than other Southeast Asian girls.Clan relations are another important factor in dating.Children are considered part of their father's patrilineage and are strictly forbidden from marrying anyone within that same patrilineage within five generations.A regular Vietnamese girl will even be scared of calling you her boyfriend in public because, in the event of a breakup, everyone will assume that she has had sex with you.Virginity is still highly prized in Vietnam and, whilst things are slowly changing, there are still lots of brides that are virgins up until their wedding night.